Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Yesterday.....Wow

So, here's a little re-cap of yesterday. We both worked and got home around the same time, 5:00. The kids got home and we rested for a about 30 min. Then he decided to go mow the grass and I decided to cook dinner.

So he's outside and I decide to make hamburgers, but we are out of propane and I really want them on the grill so I go out side to ask him, If I can load up ALL 3 of the kids and go buy some propane. He is immediately red in the face and asks me where I am going to get money for it, I politely tell him that I worked all day and I get paid daily, I clean houses, he knows this, he is obviously mad about something.

SO I asked him what his problem was and he said when he was mowing the grass, he found a cigarette butt. Yes, people, 1 cigarette butt.

I do have a ash tray that I use but occasionally, one gets away form me.

So then he goes on and on about this butt in the grass and then tells me that he can't believe our lifestyle, You know, the drugs, alcohol, and sex parties:)

Ok, #32 Hmmmm, just because I work a part time job cleaning houses, wear capri pants and smoke cigarettes does not make me the worst person, mother on the face of this earth.

So I gave him the finger and I left, He then sent me a text and told me that "the worst part about me leaving is that I come back, stay gone for good this time."

Thanks #32, I love you too.

8 comments:

Addict said...

WOW wow wow. You do not need to take that crap from him! It's time he finds a way to make you happy or you find someone who will.

The Peach Tart said...

#32 might have to go

O.F.C.J. said...

Wow....

O.F.C.D.

SCOTT said...

communication, may be the answer. talk it out. don't be immediately listening to the doomsayers who'll say ditch him... maybe ask for a lil' more respect and say how hes makin' you feel.. then kick his ass to the side of the curb if it aint what you wanna hear, lol...

Alison said...

how hurtful. I am so sorry!

Yet said...

wow. That's harsh. Such hurtful words...
It's pretty clear that there are underlined problems that run pretty deep. It seems like severe communication issues. I suppose if you'd like to save your marriage you could go to christian couple counciling (since he's all religious or what not) but than again, if you don't want to...you guys are sure headed in the perfect direction..Be Blessed.

Traci Lavette said...

He's an asshole and clearly doesn't deserve you - or the kids. That's super foul that he says those kinds of things to you and it seems in the meanest tones. It's amazing how they can complain about a single thing when they get away with doing so very much. I think sometimes we make "it" look so easy that when we finally ask for something, it's like "WTF!"

Whatever the reason, it shouldn't be a problem...especially when they are benefiting too. And in his case, a good ass hamburger, I'm sure.

Stay strong,
Traci

prashant said...

WOW wow wow. You do not need to take that crap from him!

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